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 Newtown and Kindness

1/11/2013

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My last post was 2 days prior to the Newtown shooting.  As I watched the news unfold on TV that day, I was stunned, horrified, filled with disbelief, but most of all sad.  I could be any one of those Moms at that school.  I have a kindergartener and a first grader who  (despite a good amount of standard sibling arguing) are each other's best playmates.  My Mom is a first grade teacher.  I am a teacher (currently taking some time off), and I have tons of teacher friends.  And so it hit close to home.  And my heart was (still is) filled with heavy saddness for every single person involved, but especially the ones who lost their loved ones, including the family of Nancy Lanza and the shooter as they certainly hold a unique kind of grief knowing that their own loved one did something so unthinkable, and they should not be left out of people's prayers. 

The Monday following the shooting I was home putting together a dollhouse for my daughter, and all I could think about was how families were planning funerals.  Planning funerals a week before Christmas.  I just can't imagine what that must be like.  If they are like me, they probably had most, if not all, of their Christmas gifts hidden away in their homes and couldn't wait for their kids to open them.  They may have had an elf showing up every morning and links of paper counting down to Santa's big arrival.  They had parties planned, gifts for their teachers, special Christmas outfits and that special giddy excitement kids have when the magic of Christmas nears.  I sat in my living room with the dollhouse watching Anderson Cooper barely able to say the name of each victim as he too was overcome with grief.  They were just sweet, innocent babies, and I couldn't help but stop and remind myself how lucky I am to have every single day that I do with my kids.  It can end at any moment for any reason. 

Later that week I attended the class parties of both kids.  Walking through the halls of the school filled with happy, smiling kids wearing their best Christmas Party clothes nearly brought me to tears.  Any shooting is beyond terrible, but to come into a place filled with such innocence, happiness and hope and create such carnage is simply beyond words.

Like most everyone else as well, I felt helpless.  What can I, way over here in Texas,  possibly do for those poor people.  I sent prayers, we donated some money, and hugged our kids a little closer.  But, what I really loved was how there was a movement to pay kindness forward.  People were starting pay-it-forward lines at Starbucks (pay for the person behind you in line), opening doors for others, paying people compliments, or doing what felt right to them.  Kindness goes farther than we can imagine - perhaps you make someone's day with just a smile or kind gesture.  You'll never know it, but I'd like to think it will create a domino effect of good vibes throughout the community.  We should make it habit rather than something we do for a few days after a tragedy.

It's been almost a month since Newtown.  It's not on the forefront of the news any more, although people are rearing their ugly heads in the gun control debate.  As Newtown moves out of the country's main focus, the families of those victims are just beginning the journey of how to figure out how to live without their loved ones.  We owe it to them to continue to spread kindness and love rather than anger and hatred.  The spirit of 6 and 7 year olds is one of love, happiness and hope.  Let us all continue to pay it forward however we can and honor their spirits.  Hug your kids, open doors for strangers, smile at someone, let someone in front of you when driving without worrying about the extra 15 second it may cost you.  The positive energy will make a difference. 


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Jodie Adolfson link
1/21/2013 02:57:07 pm

Thank you so much for this kind post, I live in Newtown, CT and a stay at home with 2 girls (7 and 4). As you can imagine the tragic events that occurred on December 14th has really changed my world. This post was very articulate and while you were going through those emotions, I to was having those same emotions!! Sending my 2nd grader back to school was terrifying and driving past make-shift memorials caused me to cry and I wont even go into the emotional roller coaster of the funerals! Through all of that, my friends, family and community are coming together to support one another and try to move forward in a positive way!

I am writing to you because I thought some of your friends (online or offline) might be interested in honoring the victims of the Sandy Hook Elementary tragedy.

Some friends here in Newtown just launched Newtown Kindness, a non-profit organization which fosters kindness in children through the Charlotte Bacon Act of Kindness Awards. The organization and program was founded in memory of their friends' daughter, Charlotte Bacon, a victim in the Sandy Hook Elementary tragedy. Since we are a non-profit and just starting out, we are looking to online resources to spread the word about us.

All I am asking of you is to check us out at www.newtownkindness.org and if they are of interest, please share with your community (either online or offline), like us on facebook or simply encourage the children you may know to enter the contest.

Thanks for listening and keeping my community in your heart!

Jodie

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